Ok. So you meet this guy. Casually. He takes off his ring. You notice. But you already liked him. You decide to enjoy the night. He says "you're picture perfect". You say: "I'm not going to be your mistress, not your girlfriend. I don't want to be second, I don't want to be first. I want to be the one". And this memoir was his response. Honestly, I think he just wants a mistress. Definitely not tempting. At least not for me.