Early in our relationship, we were the classic, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." I remember getting into an "emotional discussion" and feeling frustrated when James would disappear and not try and talk about it. I would hear him tinkering in the garage, fixing something on my bike. After reading the book mentioned, I got him. He was making up with me. Today, he bought me new tires for my road bike after I had problems with my tires yesterday. No fight or anything. I started crying because he was so lovingly upgrading my bike. While he was working on my bike I felt a profound feeling of love and I remembered the early days when I didn't understand how he loves me.