I often wonder if I will feel genuine love for her if we ever meet. Is it possible to be in the physical presence of someone you've never met and feel an overwhelming sense of paternal care and concern simply because, swimming around inside and on top of them, is an ocean of DNA identical to yours? My most inspirational writing on this website begins and ends with her. I've found the Holy Grail. Now I'm waiting for it to want to be held safely in my arms.