I don't wanna be as low as my irritations, but that wish doesn't make them magically disappear. Other than calming one's self down after the fact, how do you turn your mind field into the metaphorical duck's back that irritations will slide right off of? Think bigger picture? Mock the irritator in your mind? What gives you your Taoistic ability to go with the flow of life? Give up your tricks! Everyone can benefit from it.