Before graduation, around March I think, my mom and I had talked about me going down to CA to see her and my brother, and meet her soon-to-be husband.
I didn't really think too much about it before I said sure, and that I would try and figure out how much it was going to cost between the 2 of us.
After about a month, and her not really putting much effort forward in talking to me or responding to texts or emails I decided that it probably wasn't smart for me to go visit quite yet.
After I told her that news, and said we could discuss it again more toward the end of the year, our phone calls started getting shorter and less frequent (they didn't happen unless I called). Until about 6 weeks ago when she said she'd call me back in the next couple days (after a 2 minute conversation of her fulfilling the obligatory graduation phone call).
She never called back, and I'm fighting calling her and proving that I do need her to at least acknowledge me in some way.
If she wants me in her life as much as she claims, I guess she can pick up the phone for once.