You will never be the same! You can try to get them out of your heart, but once they stake a claim, they're heartowners for life. At least that has been my experience and they absolutely do own a piece of my heart. I can't shake them loose. I have loved two Scorpios in my lifetime (not at the same time! 20 years apart) and while we have long since parted ways, every year at this time my thoughts drift to those Scorpio days. Big sigh!
Wishing all Scorpios a very happy birthday in the coming weeks!