OK, here goes! I've been on the path of \"one and done\" for many, many years. There are a million things I have left to do in my life and I've never been the stay at home mom type. I need my independance and freedom or I can't thrive. Well, I found my soul mate three years ago and we have the most amazing love I've ever had in my life. We had the \"talk\" a few nights ago about our future, our plans to move down South, and maybe a baby!! It was the sweetest, most romantic conversation of all time :) We think the timing would be perfect right around when my son graduates from HS- then we are still only raising one at a time sort of. My son has always wanted a baby bro or sis, so his dream may just come true! He does think it will be funny to be around 19-20 years older than the baby, but I think it will work out just as it was always meant to.