Looking for guidance? Look no further. This week’s memoirists used their insights to create the most thought-provoking Sixes (“Wanting less feels like getting more.”). Take heed: whether sharing advice on how to have your cake and eat it, too (“Avoid disappointments. Leave room for dessert.”), or passing down wisdom from one generation to the next (“Mama said, ‘Nice ’em to death.’”), these Sixers seem to know what they’re talking about.  –Allison Volpe

Most patient: “Give second thoughts a little time.” –TeaTopper

Most indulgent: “Avoid disappointments. Leave room for dessert.” –oopsalittle

Best philosopher: “Some days deserve stroking, not seizing.” –Kharis

Most grateful: “Wanting less feels like getting more.” –_Miracle

Best reality: “Bad wine doesn’t get any better.” –canadafreeze

Most personal: “Mama said, ‘Nice ’em to death.’” –HippyGirl

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